Friday, September 5, 2008

What happened

The past week has been difficult. No other way to put it.

This is the information Brent and I got from the police report:
On Friday morning September 29, 2008, Rocky was in a terrible "MCA" (motorcycle accident) as the L.A. County Sheriff Dept calls it. He was heading westbound on Gale Ave. in City of Industry going to work. Rocky decided to take Gale, because the 60 freeway was congested. He was on his Harley cruising at 40 mph, under the speed limit. A man driving eastbound turned left into a Nissan dealer where he worked. He was going only 5 mph. Before he knew it he slammed into Rocky. This was 6:20 am, sunrise. It was a complete accident. The man just did not see him, until it was too late. Apparently, Rocky saw him though, there was a 19 foot skid mark before Rocky was hit. The deputy, was on the scene within minutes. Later he had to apologize to us, because the police report is written out as a fatality. He was called out because the paramedics believed Rocky would be dead on the scene or not make it to the hospital. Rocky was air-lifted by helicopter to USC Medical Center in downtown L.A. arriving around 8am.
When we spoke with the deputy, he was teary eyed and very pleased to meet us both. Unbeknownest to us, he had been checking on Rocky's status and to his surprise found out that Rocky was alive! Miracle #1

Since the accident, Rocky has faced many obstacles. When he came in he was at 100% oxygen and the ventilator was breathing for him at 16 breaths per minute. All his ribs are broken, along with his shoulder, collar bone, femur in 2 places, tibia and fibula. Two of the brakes were compound. He had 2 chest tubes and multiple skull fractures. They said he was not going to make it through Saturday. He had severe trauma to his head and major bleeding & swelling on his brain. Increased ICP (intracranial pressure) in the high 40's. (Normal being less than 10) He needed urgery on his leg, to control bleeding. They were not able to do the surgery right away because of increased ICP, due to bleeding. But couldn't control the bleeding because of his ICP. Catch 22. And don't even think about talking to him or touching him they said, because the stimulation will increase it more. The meds weren't working to control it, so they ended up putting in a shunt to relieve pressure and that helped immediately! So, as it was, all Saturday and Sunday, we weren't able to talk or touch him. Which is hard, it's like telling a kid "don't touch that!" It only makes you want to do it more. Made it through Saturday. Miracle #2

Rocky had to get stable enough to go to surgery. While we waited and waited for the ok. They didn't think he would be able to go to surgery, because his ICP was fluctuating. About 12 hours past and then by Sunday things were looking good. Although, they said he might not make it through surgery. And that they would have to stop if any of his vital signs changed, even the slightest. But, like I said, we have seen miracles these last few days and Rocky came through the 6 hour surgery with 3 rods in his leg. Of course, he will have to have surgery at a later date to fix his heel, which was crushed so bad, he doesn't have one at this time. He is now at 50% oxygen and breathing 23/16, which means he is breathing 7 of the breaths on his own. Miracles #3-#5

Rocky has also had temp of 104 degrees. (He is on antibiotics for an infection just in case.) His vitals were all out of whack and the trauma team rushed him to CTscan. Which hadn't changed in days. (good news) and while he was in there, all his vitals came back to normal in front of the staffs eyes. One of the doctors actually said they were "confused" as to what happened. Miracle #6 and more to come...God did it!

So, for now, he is stable. He is still in the trauma unit. But, now has a tracheotomy and a peg tube or g-tube for feeding. He is in a coma on his own, no sedation or medication. But things are looking good, since he is having reflexes and making faces to show signs of pain or discomfort. He is also moving up on the coma scale...he went from a 3 to a 6 out of 15. This is great! There is more to tell, so please stay in touch. God is listening to you so Thank you for all your prayers and support. We welcome it.

PS. prayer for my mom, Linda she is very dehydrated and fatigued!

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

Linda, Kevin, Nathan, Tina and families,
Every one of us here in Arizona is thinking of Rocky and sending "positive vibes" your way. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Jack was kind enough to call me shortly after the accident to bring us up to speed. We have been on edge ever since. It's good to hear that progress is being made and Rocky is improving everyday. Debbie and I have been trying to coordinate a day to fly out (if only for moral support). I'm in Vegas until the 13th and I'm heading to Orlando on the 19th. That leaves a very small window, so we'll stay in touch via this blog and phone if neccesary.
My email address is john@id-services.biz in case there is a reason you need to contact me.
Stay strong and positive. Rocky is a tough guy and he'll pull through this.
Regards to all,
John, Debbie and family

Anonymous said...

LINDA AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS

I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I'M PRAYING FOR YOU GUYS EVERYDAY. ITS TERRIBLE WHAT HAPPENED TO ROCKY BUT I BELIEVE THAT GOOD WILL COME FROM THIS TRAGEDY. IT HAS BROUGHT YOUR FAMILY CLOSER TOGETHER AND IT HAS MADE US ALL APPERCIATE EVERY SINGLE DAY WE HAVE TOGETHER WITH OUR LOVED ONES. I KNOW THAT CONSTANT PRAYER AND SUPPORT WILL BRING ROCKY BACK TO YOU LINDA. POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND THE BELIEF IN GODS POWER IS GOING TO HEAL HIM. STAY STRONG.

ALICIA (PIZZA KITCHEN)

Anonymous said...

Linda and family,
We have been praying for you, Rocky everyday and have sent the prayer requests to our church's prayer team...they are all praying for his recovery. The Lord is so close to you and Rocky and I know He is holding Rocky in His arms at this very moment, singing songs of healing over him.

We love you,
Jimmy and Heidi Yowell

Anonymous said...

I went to see Rocky & Linda again last night. I found it interesting when I went to the desk to get my pass to go up to his room, the lady at the desk commented; “Is he still here? A lot of people have come to see him. He must be loved a lot!”

I knew of course immediately that along with his family, many if not most of those coming to see him were from the church. What a testimony to the love of Christ shown in the time taken by so many to come and support Rocky and his family! I thought of Jn. 13:34-35.

Also, I was informed that Rocky came into the hospital with a #3 on the Glasgow coma scale, a few days later it went up to a #6, then dropped back to #3 where it has remained.

I also learned that the Dr. said he would do the surgery on Rocky’s leg today, then he has to leave and be transferred to another facility, but no indication of where yet.

Kevin agreed to join me in prayer for his dad as we laid hands on him.

I have also asked that he be added to our churchs prayer team.

Suggestion for those who sit at a desk: I've been pulling up Rocky's picture from the blog and leaving it opened to remind me to pray for him throught the day.

May all the Blessings of our Lord Jesus Christ be on our brother Rocky and his family!!!

Ted De Vesta

Anonymous said...

Hope Rocky is doing well, I was consulting with LACSD in 2002 on the XP project. He may remember me from there. Get well soon bro!

Holseybrown@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

What a terrible and sad accident. I am a total stranger and I know of this accident/tragedy through one of his co workers, my cousin who has asked for our prayers and said he is the "sweetest man in the company". To his family "Hang in there" He is in GOD's hands. May Jesus heal him and return him to you. He is resting in our saviors house. A big house with many rooms. Should he not return to you, know he dwells in Gods house and he is preparing a room for you and will be waiting to welcome all of you.

Positive words and prayer works! May the Lord keep you strong because Rocky will need all of you when he wakes up.

Best Wishes for Rocky? May he have a full and speedy recovery.

Diane said...

Linda,Kevin,tina and Nathan
My husband And I went to see Rocky today. I felt so much better when we seen him he looks really good considering all he has been through. He just looks so at peace. I held his hand and told him how much he means to so many people and Tina I told him about this Blog that you set up it is so great. We Love you guys and if you need anything Please just say it.
you are all in our prayers. Love Anut Diane And Uncle Mike Jenna And Michael McCaffrey
dimar18@aol.com

Anonymous said...

Rocky & family:

Hang in there, Rocky. Those of us in Purchasing who know you are praying hard. Your family is in our prayers as well so they can stay strong to help you along.
Keeping tabs on his progress,

Tisha Lancaster

Anonymous said...

Our thoughts and prayers are with Rocky and his family.
Kevin & Susan Sands

Anonymous said...

Know that Rocky and you all have been in my prayers since I heard of this terrible accident. Today I was sent the blog address. Thank you for taking the time to write all this. Will continue to pray. May your faith in God continue to sustain you all during this time. Anne

Unknown said...

Rocky,
My thoughts are with you, buddy.
Scott

Alania said...

Our prayers from Athens, Greece are amazingly near you.

God Bless Rocky,

Tony Syriotis

Anonymous said...

Linda, Kevin, Nathan, Tina and families, May your faith sustain you and may God grant you peace in your time of sorrow. Rocky was such a gentle person, smiling and always ready to help and with a great sense of humor. He loved you all and am sure will continue in the company of God.
Anne

Anonymous said...

Linda and Family, I am sorry for your loss, please let me know how I can help and when and where I may pay my final respects. email me at adamzarro@yahoo.com. Love you guys.

Anonymous said...

LINDA AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS

I KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS I CAN EXPRESS TO TAKE YOUR PAIN AWAY. I'M SO SORRY THAT IT WAS HIS TIME TO GO LIVE WITH THE LORD AND HE HAD TO LEAVE US HERE ALL BEHIND. I DO KNOW THAT LINDA YOUR HUSBAND WOULD WANT YOU TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FOR YOUR KIDS AND GRANDKIDS SAKE. HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE PEACE AND TO ENJOY LIFE WITH YOUR FAMILY. AS HARD AS IT WILL BE FOR YOU, TRY TO REMAIN STRONG. DO IT FOR ROCKY. SOMEDAY WHEN ITS TIME YOU WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN IN THE AFTER LIFE IN HEAVEN.MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU EVERYDAY THROUGH THIS AWFUL TIME AND BRING YOU PEACE.

ALICIA

Anonymous said...

Roccia Family & friends
I will speak on behalf of the many individuals here at Xerox Corporation that have crossed Rocky's path. My business relationship with Rocky goes back nearly 15 years and when we would meet we always took time to share stories about our lives outside the office. He always had a smile on in face and a twinkle in his eye when spoke about his family.

We are all very sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you as you navigate through such a difficult time.



Grant Roberts
grant.roberts@xerox.com

Anonymous said...

Hello Linda, Kevin, Nathan, Tina and family. Linda you are so aware of God's mercy - all the blessings this tragedy has brought forth. What we do not know is His perfect plan for each one of us. Rocky has lived out that plan God prepared him for, so his job here is done. Rocky will still do much in this world to change the lives of others because he is in our hearts and was such a good example of what God asks of us all. I am so glad I had a chance to stop by the hospital Saturday. I, and our family are blessed to have known Rocky and we hope to build a stronger relationship with you Linda and his/your family.

With tender love and prayers - may God sustain you and live in your heart with Rocky.

Lydia M. and family
lydia.a.marin@lmco.com